You hear the call, the call to go into the barren place, that place we know as the desert. Fear rushes to the soul as memories of the harsh desert sun beating on your skin and the cold night wind biting at your face and fingers returns to your mind, making the hairs on your … Continue reading Where Dreams Go to Die
Leadership
When Heroes and Villains are Born
Every hero and villain is born in the desert. Both, like the rest of humanity, are in as much control of the circumstances of their lives as a fly's ability to cast Mars into another galaxy. They cannot control what happens in their lives, but they can control how they respond. Tragedy knocks at the … Continue reading When Heroes and Villains are Born
Happiness is a Shallow Life Goal
One thing the desert killed for good in me is the need for happiness. Now, I know that sounds pretty morbid and depressing right out of the gate, but hang with me for a bit and allow me to explain. A recurring idea that has appeared throughout these blog posts is that the deserts of … Continue reading Happiness is a Shallow Life Goal
Become a Monster
The desert has a way of changing you into someone your past self would not even recognize, someone who would shock your past self as well as those who knew you before. There is something revolutionary that happens in the human soul when we hit rock bottom and rise to the top, when our worldviews … Continue reading Become a Monster
Who are You? Pt. 5 Change the Narrative
In the last post, we covered facing the darkness that is inside each of us. We established that we are way more complex than we give ourselves credit for and we don't know what we actually believe until we start facing ourselves. Like the desert, the inner workings of our soul and the "why" behind … Continue reading Who are You? Pt. 5 Change the Narrative
Who are You? Pt. 4 Facing Your Inner Darkness
As your time in the desert increases and the unforgiving environment saps your strength, you realize you are running out of time. Food and water are scarce and it won't be long until you die. Death creeps upon your doorstep and the vultures circling above you are a constant reminder that time is against you. … Continue reading Who are You? Pt. 4 Facing Your Inner Darkness
Who are You? Pt. 3 Stop Lying to Yourself
The desert is the great mirror, the revealer of your truest intentions. In it, who you really are comes to the surface as the scorching heat and the blinding light burns away any walls you had up protecting your facades. As you look out into the expanse, you are faced with a question, "Will I … Continue reading Who are You? Pt. 3 Stop Lying to Yourself
Who are You? Pt. 2 The Most Important Thing about You
In the desert, there is mostly silence. The only company you have is the occasional cry of the coyote, or the howl of the wind. As you look out into the empty expanse, you are reminded that what you see on the outside is what you feel on the inside. The desert suddenly becomes a … Continue reading Who are You? Pt. 2 The Most Important Thing about You
Who are You? Pt. I
Shattered. Destroyed. Lost. Three single words with heavy meaning. In just a few seconds, years spent building a relationship, a family, a business, a ministry, a dream. . . are suddenly wiped out by the bombs of betrayal, unforeseen circumstances, or failed promises. The smell of smoke fills your nostrils and burns your eyes as … Continue reading Who are You? Pt. I
Enjoy Your Suffering
One of the greatest gifts I received in the desert was suffering. I know, thinking of suffering as a gift may seem a little strange. I'll never forget the moment that I stepped into Dr. Reece's office. When I showed up at Johnson University, I was broken and searching for answers. During my time at … Continue reading Enjoy Your Suffering